You have to realize that 95% of human behavior is inherited through family systems, trauma, and societal conditioning that spans our entire history If you want to break free & become your highest self you have to make new programs in your mind. Change yourself from the inside.
yeah that's true the most important is your happiness
After its all said and done you can't be of any service to others if you don't first work on yourself.
Happiness depends on our choice. Miranda Kerr